"Mom's bucket list"
Sun.Star Davao, Jan. 12, 2013
2012 was a year of realizations for me. One of the many things I learned is that even if I want to prioritize being a wife and mom, I should also find time for other activities and people in my life on a regular basis. In addition, it is indeed true that “love and care for others starts with love and care for the self”.
Last year, I finally made it a point to squeeze in my “me time” weekly in spite of the demands of family and work. Simple treats such as a relaxing massage, shopping for myself, and quality time with dear friends (yes, even on school nights!) did wonders for me and my well-being. Balance is truly the key to enjoying our lives to the fullest.
‘Mom-About-Town’ starts its first article for the year with a mom-on-the-street interview with some of Davao’s most fascinating women about the essential lessons they learned in 2012 as well as their bucket list.
Read on and be inspired!
MIMI
VERGARA-TUPAS
*What is the most
important lesson you learned from 2012?
2012 is gone in a blink. Many moments, I wished for more hours,
more hands and more energy to my days. But each night, I still capped them with
so much gratefulness and I guess that was what kept me through. A GRATEFUL
HEART IN THE CORE OF CHALLENGES. This year, I'm keeping matters at pace and my
bucket list says a lot about it!
*What is in your bucket
list for 2013 and even beyond?
1. Spend more time with my
kids on a promised day each month. All three, separately. (And vow not to touch
my phone for 100% undivided attention!)
2. UNPLUG. from my
Laptop. iPhone. iPad (even just for half a day & not feel withdrawn!)
3. Stay CONNECTED. And I
mean with my dear Lord.
4. KINDLE my love for
journaling & scrapbooking. And, I don't mean the digital way.
5. Spread good karma and continue to inspire and
empower women in my own simple way (this year, through my modAudrey swimwear
line!)
PINKY
BARCELONA-RUGGIERO
*What is the most
important lesson you learned from 2012?
The past year brought a few unpleasant surprises my way. But
I learned that it's really easier to face trials when you have hope and faith
in your heart. These two important things helped me get through it all. And I
know that as long as I have these, I will be okay.
*What is in your bucket
list for 2013 and even beyond?
1. Get
over my fear of driving. The first day I drove was when I was 4 1/2 months
pregnant with my 3rd baby, had my then 6-year old son in the car with me, and
we got into an accident. No one was hurt. But the experience affected me.
2. Get into a healthier diet like my husband.
Remove or lessen the amount of junk food that goes into my body. And encourage
my kids to do the same.
3. Travel more. Visit Santorini, Geneva
or London Paris or Barcelona
4. Win the lottery! Secure my kids' future and help my family and relatives with the prize.
5. Write a cookbook. It doesn't have to be published. It's just something I want to do for myself and my family. Hopefully, my kids will benefit from it in the years to come.
JOAN RAMIREZ-BALA
*What is the most important lesson you learned
from 2012?
Every
day is a SPECIAL day. Inspired by the quote, "Burn the candles, use the
nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion.
Today is special." But, don't forget to SAVE for a rainy day.
*What is in your bucket list for 2013 and even beyond?
1. Adventure - Go skydiving.
2. Travel - See the Aurora Borealis (northern
lights) in Alaska
3. Learning - Learn to speak another language.
4. Health – Reach my weight goal!
5. Family - Celebrate my 50th wedding
anniversary with my family.
NATALIE TAN-WEE
*What is the most important lesson you learned
from 2012?
Good
karma does not only return to you in a hundred fold. Unaware that the kids are
watching and knowing how they mirror their parents, seeing them being little
good Samaritans is even more gratifying than doing the good deed itself.
*What is in your bucket
list for 2013 and even beyond?
1.Revisit Europe
with my husband and kids when they are old enough to appreciate its culture.
2. I've always loved roller coasters and I hope
I'd still be able to do it even if I'm above 60 years old.
3.Be my kids' best friend without trying too
hard nor dress like a teenager.
4.To be able to guide my kids properly in
choosing the profession that they truly love and succeed in it.
5.To go on an exclusive honeymoon with my
husband on our 50th anniversary and still be madly in love with
each other.
SHEILA TORRES-BARNES
*What is the most important lesson you learned
from 2012?
In 2012, I learned the importance of time- time for my
family members that are far away from me. My parents and siblings live in Manila
*What is in your bucket list for 2013 and even beyond?
1.Run a full
marathon. I run with my family and friends a couple of times every week. I'd
like to kick up my running and go the extra mile by finishing a 42-km race.
2.Help my kids
achieve their goals this year. I support my kids in all their endeavors. I hope
to help them more this year with their Karate careers, academic challenges and
extra-curricular activities.
3. To go on a get-away
trip with my husband. We usually go on outings with the kids but I want to be
able to go on a trip with just my husband and me since the kids are old enough
to be left on their own now.
4. To help more
people than I did last year. I make it a point to help people in need. I hope I
can help more people this year.
5. To go on a trip
with my friends. My friends are truly treasures. I want to go on a trip with
just me and my friends for us to spend time together.
VANESSA UY-SANTOS
I've learned that
sometimes the best thing you can do is let go - so that better things can come
your way. Although we can be emotionally involved to the way things have been,
there are those times when we really are meant to let go and move on.
*What is in your bucket
list for 2013 and even beyond?
1. Learn to drive. Be able to rely on myself for
transportation.
2. Travel to Europe with
the one I love. I've always wanted to experience another culture, music , food
, people, sights and history.
3. Do something on the spur of the
moment. I am not sure what this can be, maybe I will book a ticket and
go somewhere alone.
4. Learn to
play the guitar. I have always wanted to play an instrument and had
some success with the piano, but I think the guitar is just so much
cooler!
5. Make a difference in someone's life.
RICA DAKUDAO-BUENAFLOR
*What is the most important lesson you learned
from 2012?
To take things in stride and enjoy the ride. Life is what happens while
you're busy planning things. I'm a big planner and since I desire a lot of
things, sometimes I fail to enjoy the process of "getting there". Now
I will consciously make myself aware of and enjoy the "journey"
rather than the "getting there".
*What is in your bucket list for 2013 and even beyond?
1. Go on a 5-day
Spiritual Journey on my own.
2. Own a vacation home in another country.
3. Send all my five kids for an education abroad.
4. Take up a culinary course in Cordon Bleu,
5. Become a Yoga Instructor.
SHARON FERRER-MANGAOIL
*What is the most important lesson you
learned from 2012?
The most important
lesson I have learned from 2012 is to value relationships. When we die,
people will forget about the material things we've amassed, but they will
always remember how we made them feel when we were alive.
*What is in your bucket
list for 2013 and even beyond?
1. Bring my parents on a vacation.
2. Read and understand the entire Bible.
3. See all my children through college,
hopefully through medical school.
4. Tour Europe
with my husband and children.
5. Learn to drive.
DR. DEBBIE OCCENA-SABLADA
*What is the most important lesson you learned from 2012?
I am a rather impatient person (nudges chuckling husband in
the ribs) so for 2012 my best lesson learned was on patience....Learning it,
living it, teaching it. I just had to let go of the dozens of what ifs and things
that could go wrong and just focus on what I could control and what I could
live with.
*What is in your bucket list for 2013 and even beyond?
1. Have the luxury of turning off my mobile phones for 3 days, no calls from the clinic or the hospital or business contacts, and be a kid again. Romp and play and get grubby, dirty and stinky with my little and not so little one.
2. Get away with my dearest hubby for even a few days and go on dates, dates, and more dates... With everything going on in my busy busy existence, sometimes we get so caught up with making a living we forget about making a life!
3.Travel with my frail but still feisty mom and
go back to her roots.
4.Reconnect with my
oldest dearest friends.
5.Pay an extended visit
to my beloved sister and get to just kick back and chat, maybe have a pedicure,
go shopping, catch up ... no looming departure dates, no urgent errands, no
housework for her and a magic babysitter for me.
6. Lastly, if time and
the bucket permits....To go out with my camera and my tripod and my trusty
trekking sandals and go off and capture the sunrise amidst the still seas and
sombre rocks once again.
ATTY. CHRISTY SAGMIT
*What is the most important lesson you
learned from 2012?
The most important
lesson I learned in 2012 is that the health of my daughter and my loved ones is
what matters most. Money, professional success and academic ranking all fade
into insignificance when health is at stake. I am willing to give up everything
in exchange for the full life of my loved ones.
*What is in your bucket
list for 2013 and even beyond?
To be very honest, I
don't have a bucket list. Our life in this world is just a temporary
destination. Everything that we have here is temporal. I don't have a list of
what I want to do before I die but I seize the day so I can make my family and
friends feel that they are loved and God loves them, through me. I tend to go
with the flow and let life happen.
JOAN MARIE SY-DOMINGO
*What is the most important lesson you
learned from 2012?
2012 is one of
the most memorable years of my life. I got the chance to fulfill some of the
things in my bucket list. I finished a degree, travelled solo, directed a
concert, organized bigger events and competed in an individual sport. In the process,
I learned that the secret to happiness is the acceptance of yourself and your
capability, to believe that with determination and hard work come great
rewards. Indeed, if we will it, anything is possible.
We don't need to
stop living our dreams once we become a parent. I think that our kids will
eventually grow up and leave our side.
We know for a fact that we will always be there for them, we shouldn't
feel guilty doing what we love rather let it serve as a reward for being good
parents.
Being a role a
model to our kids encompasses not only what you say rather what you do in
everyday life, so be an inspiration to your family.
*What is in your bucket
list for 2013 and even beyond?
1.Travel: To explore the fascinating sights of
Vietnam. I read that the culture and people of Vietnam Vietnam
2. Compete and win Gold this time around. I’ve always
wanted to have an individual sport and last year, I had the opportunity to try
Jujitsu Martial Arts. With only 3 months of training, I got the chance to join
the Philippine Jujitsu Novice Competition in Manila
3.To have a billboard of my radio show on 105.9
MixFm. I want to have a billboard of my radio show and my team along a busy
street in downtown D.C. Not to show off but to represent fun at work. When we
are doing what we love, we don't care about time. For at least at that moment,
time doesn't exist and we are truly having fun.
4.Teach in a college or university. I still conduct
radio workshops to date. This year I want a wider audience, I would like to try
teaching in a college or university and inspire would-be broadcasters to pursue
their dreams and strive for excellence in anything that they do.
5.Direct more shows. I’ve been directing and
conceptualizing concerts and events for years. Last year, I had the privilege
to direct Martin Nievera’s concert, an accomplishment worth writing on my
resume. I’ve always wanted to direct concerts and shows in Manila ,
Cebu or abroad. Oh, keep them coming!
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