Dare to love in 40 days

"Dare to love in 40 days"

Sun.Star Davao, Feb. 13, 2010

“Has it really been ten years?”

When I was still single, I used to get so ‘kilig’ every time I watch this De Beers Diamond TV ad where the wife uttered this memorable line to her hubby who surprised her with a stunning ‘girl’s best friend’ during their tenth year wedding anniversary.

I, myself, couldn’t believe that this April, my husband Gary and I will be celebrating a similar milestone.

“Has it really been ten years?”....As a couple, we are still both growing and open to making our marriage work even better. We are involved in Couples for Christ and occasionally join marriage enrichment retreats.

Last Sunday, upon the invitation of my good friend Lafayette Lim, Gary and I attended the special movie screening of “Fireproof” at NCCC Cinema. The fundraising event was for the benefit of the Family Ministry of the Chinese-Filipino Apostolate in Davao.

“Fireproof” is an American Christian drama film which became the highest grossing independent film of 2008, with movie ticket sales of over $33,000,000. It is a story of Capt. Caleb Holt (Kirk Cameron) and Catherine Holt (Erin Bethea) who have been married for seven years.

Overworked and burdened by the demands of their respective jobs, Caleb, a firefighter, and Catherine, a public relations director of a hospital, constantly fought. These fights were on many issues such as their jobs, money matters, sharing of housework, etc.

Their continuous bickering and lack of respect for each other so much affected their marriage that Catherine decided to file for divorce and leave Caleb.

When Caleb’s parents learned about this, Caleb’s dad had a serious and engaging talk with his son. He challenged Caleb to a 40-day experiment called “The Love Dare”.

Unaware of this experiment, Catherine began to notice the changes in Caleb and was surprised when Caleb began to treat her differently. He would suddenly surprise her with flowers, call at work to check on her, help around the house, and prepare a romantic candlelight dinner.

But, unfortunately, these all went to waste when Catherine doubted his real intentions and pushed through with the divorce. She suspected that he was just trying to save himself from an ugly and costly divorce.

Despite this uphill journey to save his marriage, Caleb still persisted and as a result, allowed Christ to get into his life and, most importantly, into his relationship with his wife.

With this renewed faith, Caleb went on further through the challenge and pushed himself to even exceed 40 days. Despite insurmountable odds and a crumbling marriage, Caleb’s faith in Christ shone through. Catherine eventually realized that he was truly sincere to become a better husband and person.

For Caleb, he lives by his firefighter’s motto to “Never leave your partner behind”.

One of my favorite lines from the movie was when Caleb and Michael, his fellow firefighter, compared marriage to fighting fire. Caleb said that “Marriages aren’t fireproof. Sometimes you get burned”. But, Michael corrected him and explained that “Fireproof doesn’t mean the fire will never come. It means when the fire comes that you will be able to withstand it”.

So inspired was I from watching the movie that I bought “The Love Dare” book which was being offered at the cinema entrance.

“The Love Dare” is a #1 New York Times bestseller with over 3 million copies sold worldwide. It contains an inspiring 40-day challenge for husbands and wives to understand and practice unconditional love. The book “personally leads you through daily devotionals, records your thoughts and experiences, and ends each day daring you to perform a simple act of love for your spouse”.

Here’s an excerpt from Day 10: Love is Unconditional. “Today’s Dare: Do something out of the ordinary today for your spouse—something that proves (to you and to them) that your love is based on your choice and nothing else. Wash her car. Clean the kitchen. Buy his favorite dessert. Fold the laundry. Demonstrate love to them for the sheer joy of being their partner in marriage”.

Whether you’re celebrating your 1^st or 60^th wedding anniversary, let’s strive to make our marriages “fireproof”.

Happy Valentine’s Day!

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Solar-power + youthful energy = Sikat

"Solar power + youthful energy = Sikat"

Sun.Star Davao, Feb. 6, 2010

They dreamed, believed and dared.

The impressive performance of the Philippines’ first ever solar-powered car, “Sinag” (Rays of the Sun), inspired the De La Salle University (DLSU)-Manila engineering students and teachers to design and create its ‘faster and more furious’ successor, “Sikat” (Sunrise).

Sinag finished 12^th among 20 competing teams during the 2007 World Solar Car Challenge in Australia, beating cars from other first world countries like Canada and France.

Recently, the 10-member delegation of the Sikat team visited the city as part of its momentous 50-day tour across the Philippines. Sikat had an exhibit at the SM City Davao’s atrium. Afterwards, it had a campus tour at Ateneo De Davao University and University of Mindanao.

The road show’s objective is to make Filipinos aware of the important use of solar energy. In addition, it was a good avenue to prepare the dynamic team for the 2011 World Solar Car Challenge in Australia.

I was privileged to have dinner with the Sikat team during our get-together with fellow De La Salle Alumni Association (DLSAA)-Davao chapter members last week.

The Manila-based group was headed by DLSU engineering faculty members Engr. Jack Catalan (assistant project leader), Martin Kalaw, Ingko Marfori and Byron Omboy with DLSU engineering students Anna Liza Mauhay, Carl Mamawal, Jeffrey Yu, Danver Panganiban, Jonathan Go and Sidney Quinia.

Touted as the “improved version of Sinag”, it took thirty one students and teachers of DLSU’s Mechanical and Electronics and Communications Engineering Departments six months to finish Sikat, in partnership with the Philippine Solar Car Society Inc.

The ground-breaking project is strongly supported by De La Salle University-Manila, Sunpower Corp., Ford Philippines, Pilipinas Shell, Motolite, First Gen, Adphoto, Air21, Alternergy, MTV Philippines, SM Supermalls, Tan Yan Kee Foundation, U-Freight, and WWF.

“The smaller and sleeker Sikat features intensified power, higher level of performance and new aerodynamic properties. Sikat shows what the youth can do and points out that there is much to do in the academe in creating more clean energy sources”, shared Dean Dr. Pag-asa Gaspillo of the DLSU College of Engineering in a previous interview.

After our intimate dinner, the DLSAA members excitedly dropped by the University of Mindanao to see Sikat for ourselves.

The sight of the actual masterpiece made our jaws drop. I’ve read a review that described Sikat’s design as comparable to a “flat jet aircraft”.

We were informed by the team that “Sikat’s body is made of lightweight carbon fiber which is utilized by F1 car models”. Compared to its predecessor, Sikat weighs 100 kilograms lighter and can outrun Sinag’s highest speed of 112 kph.

New generation sun power cells encapsulated the car’s top surface. The solar cells were supplied by “Sunpower, a company that provides the highest efficiency solar cells in the world. The solar cells are manufactured in Laguna where hundreds of thousands of cells are exported to other countries”.

Sikat’s components and materials cost P5 million. It has been made to harness the power of the sun and convert it into energy. Solar panels on the car’s surface recharge energy when exposed to sunlight thereby eliminating the need for fossil fuels.

No doubt, Sikat is a testament to the Filipinos’ ingenuity, concern for the environment and global competitiveness.

Although it may take decades before such a solar-powered car will be available in the market, Sikat is literally a shining example of what the Filipino youth can do if they dreamed, believed and dared.

Solar power + youthful energy = SIKAT...ANIMO LA SALLE!

Special thanks to Diana Debbie Liu and Bong Canete for the photos.

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